My son’s battalion will return home soon. I’ve looked through my photos and notes about the year. During that time I have mailed over 443 pounds of needed items to both my son, his platoon, and the battalion. That number includes a Christmas mailing providing gift bags for each member of the platoon, a large shipment of items to the battalion headquarters of underwear and socks, as well as Easter, birthday and regular care packages. Putting these mailings together was a community effort. It helped me pass the time by providing helpful items to our soldiers. Many of my friends sent their own boxes. I know my son and his soldiers appreciated their gifts.
In addition to reviewing the notes and photos of mailings, I’ve been reflecting on all that I have learned this year.
I’ll list these in no particular order:
While many people in our community are clueless about what it is like to have a love one deploy, so many others are extremely supportive.
Missing a Skype call really stinks.
Corresponding via cell phone to a deployed soldier in Afghanistan is amazing.
My friends and many others who read my blog are some of the most supportive and generous people ever!
The battalion commander of my son’s battalion is a very caring person.
The Family Readiness Groups are very supportive. Be sure your soldier lists you as an approved contact so you can get the updates.
There is no way to fully prepare for a child’s deployment.
The pain you feel for a fallen soldiers family is real, but can’t come close to the pain they must feel.
Helping to support deployed soldiers by sending packages and notes of support is a great way to deal with my own anxiety about deployment.
The various Facebook groups for parents/family of deployed soldiers are a good resource, but some have too much drama.
Be careful who you friend on Facebook.
Do not post any information to Facebook that could endanger our deployed soldiers. Cyber stalking does happen.
The extended Army family is amazing.
Some of our deployed troops do not get mail from home. Send extra so your soldier can share. Don’t judge the families. It is expensive to mail boxes, not everyone can afford to send things.
Never under-estimate the joy a roll of soft toilet paper can bring to a deployed soldier.
The single soldiers return to the US without a lot of support. Support the rear detachment office with your donations for welcome home items for the barracks.
The company, Covert Threads, offers great socks at a good price.
Take items out of their original box and put them into zip lock bags. The soldiers have to burn their trash and the bags can be used to keep dust off of other items.
Quite a few companies offer free shipping to APO addresses. Just Google “free shipping to APO” for a list of companies/organizations.
When people ask what they can do to support you and your soldier, keep a list of needed/wanted items handy. Ask people to help supply them.
The people at the local Post Office like to hear how my son is doing.
Many of our soldiers can’t send mail or communicate their thanks, but they are very grateful for our support.
A call, Facebook message, or a photo can make your whole week.
Clean underwear and socks are always appreciated.
You can find Blue Star pins and flags at a reasonable price online.
As hard as it may be, read up on the potential effects of war on the soldiers and the ones who love them.
An overview of some of the mailings of the past nine months. . . .